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Joyful Parenting Starts Here
t4tots dads

So you’ve been promoted — from regular guy to Dad. No warning, no training montage, and somehow you’re expected to hold the fort, hold the baby, and still hold it together. Fun!

​This space is for the dads trying to figure it out — it's okay to admit you’re overwhelmed, tired, or wondering who the heck you are now.

 

We talk about everything here:
How to show up without burning out.
How to support without disappearing.
And how to be present for your family without losing yourself in the process.

 

It’s okay to feel lost, tired, or like you’re just winging it —  you’re doing better than you think.

 

 

Research shows that play between fathers and children often looks different than mother–child play, and these differences bring unique developmental gains.

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Most dads walk into parenthood the same way we walk into a packed mama support group meeting by accident: quietly, awkwardly, unsure where to sit.

The world doesn’t really pause for you when you become a dad.

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Being a dad isn’t about stepping in when mum’s busy. It’s about being part of the rhythm — the daily, messy, joyful rhythm of family life.

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Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) – sometimes called “cot death” – refers to the sudden, unexplained passing of an apparently healthy infant under one year old, usually during sleep. The very idea is every parent’s nightmare.

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Real Stories and Community Tips

Bapa Urus Pagi

Isteri kerja syif malam, jadi saya ambil alih pagi-pagi. Bikin susu, tukar pampers, pastu bersiap hantar pi playschool. Satu pagi tu saya salah letak baju — dia pakai baju tidur pi sekolah. Tapi cikgu cakap, ‘Bapa pun cuba sudah tu, baguslah!’ Kadang orang fikir bapa tidak pandai jaga anak — tapi di Sabah, bapa pun power juga.

Jo, 33, Penampang

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